Comments on: Husbands and Wives: Helping your spouse succeed http://www.boughtforaprice.com/2009/05/husbands-and-wives-helping-your-spouse-succeed/ A Christian Blog About Healthy Christian Living Tue, 06 Dec 2011 23:30:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: StilBil http://www.boughtforaprice.com/2009/05/husbands-and-wives-helping-your-spouse-succeed/comment-page-1/#comment-142 StilBil Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:10:36 +0000 http://www.boughtforaprice.com/?p=342#comment-142 Over the many decades that I have observed, I can't help but to Agree! Though one of the largest Problems I find is that a lot of these issues can be prevent before it begins! Couples seem to be confused as to what is REALLY suppose to take place in the Dating Process! There is way too much attention paid to the Physical side of individuals, rather than the Spiritual! When Both Individuals work night and day to put God's Word First and Foremost, they tend to have Less issues. Daters Need to Ask the Hard Questions during this process, Be Clear in the short List, 3 or less of the Things That Are Breakers for U! Share with your potential mate, and be Real about where they Stand, when it comes to Fidelity,etc. The signs are usually all about couples, yet they CHOOSE to Ignore, feeling, Love Conquers All! Yes, God's Agape Love Will, But Not Man's Worldly version of Love! Bottom line it all Falls Under Clear,Concise Communication! We can't Change Each Other, Only God can Change a Persons Heart! Don't Fool Yourself! Over the many decades that I have observed, I can’t help but to Agree! Though one of the largest Problems I find is that a lot of these issues can be prevent before it begins! Couples seem to be confused as to what is REALLY suppose to take place in the Dating Process! There is way too much attention paid to the Physical side of individuals, rather than the Spiritual! When Both Individuals work night and day to put God’s Word First and Foremost, they tend to have Less issues. Daters Need to Ask the Hard Questions during this process, Be Clear in the short List, 3 or less of the Things That Are Breakers for U! Share with your potential mate, and be Real about where they Stand, when it comes to Fidelity,etc. The signs are usually all about couples, yet they CHOOSE to Ignore, feeling, Love Conquers All! Yes, God’s Agape Love Will, But Not Man’s Worldly version of Love! Bottom line it all Falls Under Clear,Concise Communication! We can’t Change Each Other, Only God can Change a Persons Heart! Don’t Fool Yourself!

]]> By: Tim Burns http://www.boughtforaprice.com/2009/05/husbands-and-wives-helping-your-spouse-succeed/comment-page-1/#comment-81 Tim Burns Fri, 08 May 2009 01:05:50 +0000 http://www.boughtforaprice.com/?p=342#comment-81 Men and woman are wired differently. My biggest marriage mistake was assuming my wife operated like I do, processed info like I do, and communicated like I do. We do well to learn the other's means of communication as our commitment to loving them. Tim Men and woman are wired differently. My biggest marriage mistake was assuming my wife operated like I do, processed info like I do, and communicated like I do. We do well to learn the other’s means of communication as our commitment to loving them.

Tim

]]> By: Carla http://www.boughtforaprice.com/2009/05/husbands-and-wives-helping-your-spouse-succeed/comment-page-1/#comment-80 Carla Thu, 07 May 2009 16:42:27 +0000 http://www.boughtforaprice.com/?p=342#comment-80 Great article, very objective from both perspectives. I whole heatedly agree. There is a great responsibility on both spouses to achieve the marriage God intended. And if we kept our focus on ourselves and not our spouse, we'd find we don't really have time to focus on them anyway. Great article, very objective from both perspectives. I whole heatedly agree. There is a great responsibility on both spouses to achieve the marriage God intended. And if we kept our focus on ourselves and not our spouse, we’d find we don’t really have time to focus on them anyway.

]]> By: Dafydd http://www.boughtforaprice.com/2009/05/husbands-and-wives-helping-your-spouse-succeed/comment-page-1/#comment-79 Dafydd Thu, 07 May 2009 15:46:24 +0000 http://www.boughtforaprice.com/?p=342#comment-79 When couples come to me to prepare for marriage, the question I ask them to keep foremost in their minds is not "Is he/she good enough for me" but "Am I being the best husband/wife I can be for her/him?" It goes against the world's way of thinking, but it's the only secure perspective. When couples come to me to prepare for marriage, the question I ask them to keep foremost in their minds is not “Is he/she good enough for me” but “Am I being the best husband/wife I can be for her/him?” It goes against the world’s way of thinking, but it’s the only secure perspective.

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